I hear gossip and mean comments about people every day at Mills. It’s always three particular topics people are rambling on about: who is doing drugs, who is in a relationship, and who is the least fashionable student in the entire school.
People who gossip need to learn to be mature and be the bigger person in life even when someone upsets you. It is not funny to see people getting their feelings
hurt over a false accusation or over something private that was leaked. Treat
others how you would like to be treated because being the cause of someone’s bad reputation at school is unreasonable and extreme. Gossiping about a person will not solve the problem or feud, but cause a bigger conflict.
“A rumor is like playing telephone, it gets passed on and you don’t know what the outcome will be,” says sophomore Priscilla Young.
The number one most common gossip would have to be about relationships and
breakups. Whenever a girl and a boy are talking, people automatically assume
that the couple is dating, which is definitely not always the case. The nosiness of teens lead to assumptions about people before the genuine truth is revealed. This is one common offset of rumors over untrue stories.
“Rumors are very hurtful and should be stopped. Unfortunately we can’t stop rumors because you can’t control what other people say,” says Young.
Gossiping has also led to the end of great friendships. Rumors should never destroy bonds between two people. Being a good friend includes not spreading rumors and having someone’s back when they are emotionally fragile.
Gossipers do not experience the pain that others feel when being accused of perpetrating or saying something. It hurts to come to school and see everyone give you the death stare and ignore you. Not only are Mills students stressed over challenging classes, but extra, unwanted drama can really hurt their self
esteem. Drama is an idiotic conflict that starts because of rumors being spread
around.
High school is not a place to talk about people; it is a place to develop your goals
for the future and meet new people while having the best four years of your
life. People should not be living through high school with peer pressure and
recalling high school as their worst four years. My advice for people suffering
from rumors is to stay calm and let out your feelings to close friends or the
counselors. Also, to remember that you will always be a better person at heart
than those who gossip.
“Have [rumors] come through one ear and out the other,” says Young.














